Like many financial professionals, I want couples to be at the financial planning table together. But the reality is one spouse is often the driver of financial matters in the relationship. And often, time and schedule challenges make it easier to rely on the catch-up conversations, which may not end up happening.
Talking about financial matters and what could happen if a loved one dies is difficult. But even more difficult is what might happen if you dont. A client of mine remembers asking her husband one night what she should do if he died. It was just a passing conversation. Like, â??Should I pay off the mortgage? she said. We never sat down and had a big talk.